Thursday, October 15, 2015

Little Things


Monday, October 12, 2015

I'm back again!

So it has been a long while since I have been on here, and that seems wrong since I was the one who came up with this idea in the first place. Anyhow, I wanted to give everyone an update on us real quickly before I have to head off to my next class. Michelle is doing well, but the baby is getting big so they are going to do some measurements this Friday and if the baby is getting too big (when the baby gets too big with diabetics, the shoulders can get too wide to the point where they get stuck in the mother's pelvis) then the doctor said we should consider an induction (c-section). From what Michelle has told me, she would prefer to do the natural way, so we may bring up in the meeting with the doctor if necessary that we could try to induce labor, not sure if that is an option or not, but we will give it a try. As for me and school, school is going pretty well so far, and I've been able to keep up with all my classes and I've started a big programming project that is due in a couple weeks. One frustrating thing is that our financial aid petition still has not gone through and they are asking for more information, reason this is frustrating is that I started this whole process over a month ago, and each time they have sent me an email each week saying, 'this is great, we have met about it, but we need the following...' and they have done this at least 5 different times. So, I'm ready for them to be done and make a decision so that we can get the financial help we need, because we don't have enough to pay tuition without that money. So keep us in your prayers, especially Michelle, and we will keep you all updated. Love you!!!

Tuesday, October 6, 2015

SO Many Seeds!

I love Conference!

In Eyring's talk on the Holy Ghost he said that we had received many "seeds" today. He then said, "Plant those seeds." "Do it." We need to take the seeds of conference and plant them in our lives and watch them grow. And it's not just the words that were spoken, but also the promptings that came into our hearts. When Carole M. Stevens spoke about her granddaughter not sitting in her seatbelt and trying the IF...Then approach to no avail and then praying. That is how parenting is. Her answer was to teach and when her granddaughter saw that she loved her, it made all the difference. She then sat in her seatbelt and since she didn't forget ... went to the store for a treat, made homemade bread and played with play dough. My thought was "This is why Jamie should live close by - so I can do that with George - and the other grandkids." That is my hope and prayer. BUT the prompting that came to me was "Learn to make really good whole wheat bread." I'm going to do that in the next 6 months. Maybe then my prayer will be answered. Seems a little crazy - I can't eat any of it to know it's good and Julie and Dad don't really care. But I guess I can give it away. Hope it's not bad. haha  Maybe I should give them jam too:)))

Highlights from me of Conference. 
Uchtdorf - told the experience that as a patient he was not very patient and came home and went on the internet. We make it too complicated. The gospel is simple. We don't need to be more of anything to be a disciple of Jesus Christ.
Richard Maynes - Joy in a Christ-centered life - the story of the potter and the clay and how the clay needs to be perfectly centered on the wheel.
Neill Marriott - I cried when I heard her story of her family motto "It will all work out" and then her daughter dying just before she arrived. She told us the words to a gospel song "Have thy way, Lord, Have thy way." I'll be what you want me to be. To be healed, we have to have a broken heart. It made me think of Cassie when they broke her arm to set the other broken arm. HE is the healer.
Larry Lawrence - talked about the rich man in the NT that was humble enough to ask, but not faithful enough to do. What Lack I yet? And then went on to give several real examples of how the HG prompts us. He encouraged us to ask the Lord in prayer, "What is keeping me from progressing?" And sometimes when we are discouraged we need to ask the Lord what we are doing right - so he can lift us up. As we receive those promptings we pierce the veil. It made me think of a sheet of paper with a pin hole in it. As we have more and more pin holes we can one day see the face of God. 
Quentin L. Cook - spoke of his mission in England and being sent to a town. People advised him to be "ship shape and bristled fashion". He explained what that meant. He then said to be Righteous, Follow Rules and Expect Hardships. Sounds like a mission.
I have in my notes after the primary song "Beautiful Savior" Katie is listening to this:)))
Robert D. Hales - Spoke to the YA. I didn't know he was a pilot, but he said "Never deliberately fly into a thunderstorm. And then chuckled as he said, "I won't tell you how I learned that). Will you hear His voice? Lots of advice on the person you should marry. If you want my counsel, be prepared to take it.
Jeffrey Holland - The love a mother for her child is the nearest thing to the love of our Savior to us. Of course I cried. Being a mother is the greatest thing. 
Bradley Foster - Difference between hearing and understanding and the example of Hellen Keller. He talked of Pablo's father and how he counseled him. I know where you are. I've been there. I'll help you get through it.  LOVED it! I want my children to know that I want to help them get through it.
Oh my, I'm going to mention every talk, but they were so good!
Vern P. Sanfill - biking in the dark tunnel. We may feel confident only to find that our preparations are not enough. It made me think that we need each other. We all have dark times. We choose how long we remain in the dark. Lord save me. Hope. Faith. Darkness would not last if I kept peddling. I thought of your investigators - They have the power to choose - to believe or doubt. If you doubt you do nothing. But if you believe, you do something.
James B. Marino - Sometimes answers to prayers are not an event, but a process.
Dallin H. Oaks - There is hope and strength through Christ, if only, we will ask. 
Sunday - If the Savior Stood Beside Me - ...thinking of Katie (so happy but I miss her).
Thomas S. Monson - so strong and then I was so worried at the end of his talk. I remember praying to give him strength. His words... Let you Light so Shine before Men..., Be thou an example of the believers... Talked of the experience of the Jerusalem Center and the "light in their eyes". I thought of Rahgad and how she saw the light. We will shine in an increasing dark world. 
Gary E. Stevenson - new apostle - I need to focus on what I can do, not on what I can't do. 
Dale G. Renlund - new apostle - heart surgeon - I wrote "oh my..." this calling isn't about me. He told the experience of a mother and father who lost 3 children. We have to see others through the eyes of our Heavenly Father and our Heavenly Mother.
Russell M. Nelson - heart surgeon operated on Spencer W. Kimball - L. Tom Perry - stunned to have him gone, Boyd K. Packer - soldiered on during his illness, Richard G. Scott - reunited, but then he said, "The 3 of them were my treasured friends. I miss them more than I can say." He too, talked about their wives and women and how, (we brethren) need your strength...
Claudio Costa - Tell Me the Stories of Jesus - Oh how Katie loved Jesus Stories! Her prayers always included "Thank you for Jesus."
Devin G. Durrant - Small efforts sustained over time can produce significant results. And then talked about "Ponderizing" that will be a new fad. Ponder/Memorize a scripture/week. We are going to do it.
Von G. Keetch - about surfing and upset about a barrier only later to find that the barrier was keeping them safe from sharks. 
Koichi Aoyagi - car accident in pain, why? We need to accept our trials in faith. Can we endure it WELL? I could have died. I didn't. I have learned empathy. 

SO many seeds!

In between morning and afternoon conference yesterday I cleaned windows. It's an amazing thing - you wash windows and your whole house feels cleaner. Made me think of the funny story Pres. Monson tells of a woman who thought her neighbor didn't know how to do laundry, only to find out it was her windows that were dirty. Our lives are so much better when we do the things to "clean our windows" and let the "Light" come in. I feel more content and happy. 

I've been thinking how I need to be more grateful. I have so many blessings that the Lord gives me. It hits me harder and harder. Katie has been doing better than I even ask for and I ask for a lot! Everyone is doing well. How can I be grateful?

Katie is talking about El Niño and how there's a lot of fear in the people. Many will lose their homes. They are doing all they can to prepare. Today in South Carolina there is flooding and many people are losing their homes. Here, I am hoping for El Niño so the hills are green and I can spray the house down and not be penalized for wate usage. I feel very ungrateful.

So how do we show gratitude? Plant the seeds that He gives us. At a time of harvest of the earth, remember eternal things. He wants to bless us. He loves all his children. Follow Him.

Sunday, September 27, 2015

Faith is the key!

3 Nephi 19:35,36 -

This is when Christ appears to the Nephites, after his crucifixion, after 3 years of teaching and setting up his Church in the old world AND performing many miracles.

And it came to pass that when Jesus had made an end of praying he came again to the disciples, and said unto them: So great faith have I never seen among all the Jews: wherefore I COULD NOT SHOW UNTO THEM so great miracles, because of their UNBELIEF.

Verily I say unto you, there are none of them (NOT Peter, Paul, none?) that have seen so great things as ye have seen; neither have they heard so great things as ye have heard.

FAITH is the key to everything. 

I love the story in Mark 9, of the man with his son. It's very emotional when you realize what this father has gone through for years. Christ tells him in v. 23, "If thou canst believe, all things are possible to him that believe. v24 And straightway the father of the child cried out, and said with tears, Lord, I believe; help thou mine unbelief."

It makes me realize that I need more Faith. 


George is now 1!

Saturday we made a lasagna, and a shrimp pesto alfredo dish, and Jon made panna cotta (gourmet Italian jello-pudding) and then we got a mix of Ceasar salad and added in some olives and purple onions. We went early to set up two tables and set the table with a tablecloth and centerpiece and nice disposable plates, cups and silverware. We even found small disposable dessert dishes for the panna cotta. We had a lady who made two fresh loaves of French bread- really good. We cooked for 14 people including our Temple President and his wife, Mission President and his wife, Stake President and his wife, Stake Presidency, Elder Hallstrom and Elder Dudley (visiting General Authorities). It went pretty well, but it got a little busy. I was supposed to be back with food right when our babysitter showed up. I gave her a quick run down and left her my phone number and told her to text me if she had any questions (even if it was to just find something). Dinner went well and the adult session was good. The topic of the conference was "The Work of Salvation". Elder Dudley spoke about Ward Council and Family Council and one lady who spoke, spoke specifically about family council in her family. She mentioned how they had a problem once and brought the matter to everyone's attention in family council, then they dismissed everyone for a few minutes and had everyone retire to their rooms to pray about the problem. Everyone came back and they started youngest to oldest with their solutions. I don't remember all of them, but the youngest girl thought they should ask Grandma to come help (so they did). One of their boys came up with another plan and they incorporated his idea. They used everyone's idea and got through the problem. I thought that was great- how everyone in the family was expected to pray and come up with an idea and everyone's idea was implemented, in some way or another. Elder Hallstrom spoke about the Sabbath Day. It made me realize I need to change some things. Sunday is the Lord's Day, not just a day of rest. It's a day to rest from the cares of the world and focus on the Savior. It is not enough to merely refrain from doing certain things, but also to fill it with uplifting things. It was mentioned that appropriate Sabbath Day activities will change from family to family. One family spoke of how Saturday is a very hectic day getting ready for Sunday and they have different activity centers set up for their kids for Sunday, including a family history area in their home and a place set up with coloring stuff to send pictures to grandparents (from the smaller children). Anyways, Mom's blog post last week had a meme that suggested appropriate activities, such as reading a conference talk or a random act of kindness, writing in your journal or calling someone who is sick. It reminded me of my mission and how Sundays were not a relaxing day. It was filled with worrying about which investigators were coming to church and meetings and teaching (just like any other day). I guess our Sundays should be more like mini missions- whether we're studying, ministering, teaching, doing family history- we should make sure that we are doing the Lord's work on Sunday. (Spending time with family is part of the Lord's work too, or can be.) Besides making a few goals for better Sunday worship for myself, I was also impressed that family council and Sabbath Day were the main things they talked about with a theme of "The Work of Salvation". I felt like improving our Sabbath Day worship and family council are very important parts of attaining Salvation and Exaltation- so they're things I need to improve on.

Conference weekend, we had a friend stay with us and her son (who doesn't love George- her son is an introvert and George doesn't understand how someone could want personal space). Anyways, we invited her and her husband to eat lunch with us before heading home (they live in our stake but about an hour away). Then we got Jon's mom from the airport that night.

This week, lots of birthday preparations and lots of grandma time. We went to the library and the store and Tuesday we went to Babies R Us to look for a present for George from Grandma Patsy. I don't remember day to day, but his party went great! Mom sent lots of cool stuff and then we put everything up. Only 5 kids came, but George went from sad and wanting to be held to his face lighting up and wanting down so he could play. We had lots of cars to play with and balloons and a craft (precut stickers to put on an outline of a car which can be made into a magnet) and a pin the headlight on Mater. The cake turned out well and the food did too. We just did a picnic on a blanket in the front room.  George learned how to use his toy from us (Jon and I) his first car ramp thing and had lots of fun. He crashed afterwards. Friday we had a down day but we did go to Once Upon a Child, where we bought George some clothes and I found this animal zoo I've been looking for (on Amazon it's $75 and on ebay it's $70 used so I was happy to finally find it at Once Upon a Child for $15).

We set up all his presents and wrapped the good stuff from Mom. It looked like Christmas- but I think it was more exciting for me than for George. When we went to open presents he was more interested in the computer where Grandma, Grandpa, Aunt Julie and Aunt Bug were watching. But he loves his new toys. He got a tool set from Mom and a magnet set that we haven't gotten out of the box yet, but he likes the music it plays so far. And he liked carrying around his movies (Fantasia, Fantasia 2000 and Make Mine Music with Peter and the Wolf on it). He's so fun to watch and play with now. After opening presents we went for a drive to a small town about 30 minutes from us called Nashville. We went to a puppet/marionette show for his birthday. It was a Halloween show and was really well done. Afterwards the lady told us to come to the Christmas show in Indy. She told us they normally say 18 months and up but that George was so good and watched this whole show that he'd be fine at the Christmas one (if we want to). I enjoyed it and George laughed and he got to high five one puppet and she had an alien puppet that landed on his hand. Then we ate lunch, got fudge (which Nashville is known for) and headed home. Jon watched George while Patsy and I went to the Women's Broadcast.

Monday, September 21, 2015

My thoughts have been on Grace. A really great talk is from Brad Wilcox -
His Grace is Sufficient
www.byutv.org/watch/49475abb-10d4-4f45-a757-7000b9945468
(Pretty impressed with myself that I was able to put the link in there. I would love all of us to read that talk - over and over again.
The price has been paid - in full - for our sins, through the atonement. We are given grace. We worship and honor and keep commandments because we want to thank Him. Because we love Him! As we do, we become like Him. The plan is perfect. We shouted for Joy!
Please read the talk.

And I've been thinking about the phrase "heart of the fathers to the children, and the heart of the children to their fathers". Thinking about Katie, my heart is turned to her. I think of her, I spiritually reach out to her with my faith and want to give her strength and courage or any drop of faith or power I may have. I feel the Savior's comfort and strength in my own life. Katie I know is turning her heart to our Heavenly Father. He has all power and will guide her and give her all she needs. As we focus on our Savior, our bonds are made stronger and we feel closer to the Savior and to each other.

It's that constant yearning that makes me a better person. That makes me love having a missionary, even though I find myself turning my ring around and around and ....


 An arrangement I made for Sara's Bday.
I missed Katie.






And this is a meme I sent to the Beehives, but since we
all need to strengthen ourselves in keeping the Sabbath
Day Holy, I thought I'd include it.







Here we are at the UCLA vs BYU game. The new BYU-I President is just two rows in front of us - big BYU fan!
And Tanner's mom is one row up and over, so needless to
say we were in Cougartown and it was a lot of fun!
We should have won, but you've got to have respect when only
losing by one point.


And this is all the stuff I made for George's 1st Bday!!!!

Sunday, September 13, 2015

Busy, busy, busy (from September 9th)

So this last week has been lots of busy stuff. I organized a babysitting group so we can take turns watching the kids and attending an institute class with our spouse. I watched the first time, last Friday and it went well (5 kids, two were sick and didn't make it). People brought kids between 6 and 7 and came back at 9. I made mac n cheese (though they had all eaten and weren't hungry till 8:30- so I fed them then). We walked through the house at first and I told them to grab any toys they'd want to play with. Most were downstairs already. Then we gated off the kitchen and stairs and just played. It went well.

Saturday we went to an art festival (and actually bought some art prints for George's room) and a garlic festival. Then we went shopping. I bought a bookcase for George for both toys and books. A fun rug for a reading corner and a rug for our bathroom and a recliner chair for George. (I wasnt thinking recliner at first but it was I think my second cheapest option of things that would last or hold its form. For some reason I couldn't find regular bean bags for cheaper. ) we ended up buying a king size mattress so George doesn't kick us just by moving. They sold Jon's grandma Ann ' s condo and Jon's dad split up his share between his kids.

Anyways, our stake conference is coming up.  We're singing in the choir. We've been asked to cook a nice meal for the visiting general authorities. I'm also cooking for institute this Friday and I'm going to host a book show for my friend and we've decided to throw George a birthday party. (All that in September). I think we're going to do a car theme. Second choice was jungle/safari, but I think my ideas would be better for him when he's at least two. He doesn't need much so it'll mostly be an elaborate play date. (Cut pool noodles in half to make ramps to send cars down, there's cheap road tape to make a maze of roads in our place and then food: I'm thinking hot "rods " (dogs) and car"bun"etors and paint (ketchup, mustard. ..) and wheel mac n cheese. Printouts that make juice boxes look like gas pumps. Normal cake and make a road with crushed oreos or something. Favor will be a car for everyone to play with and maybe a few other things. Most of George's friends happen to be older, so there will be some stuff above his level, but I think it'll be fun. I'll send pictures.

Yesterday, i wasnt home much. Woke up, showered, went to visit teach one lady, then another. Home for 30 minutes then went to help another lady. Ran some errands, came home for about 30 minutes again and then went to relief society.

We're getting settled in our place and hanging up pictures and George is doing well.

We have a new family in the ward from Venezuela - they don't speak any English. The mom has come in with her son to primary (he's in my class). This Sunday was on loving one another and one of the stories was about a girl who moved from a different country and didn't know the language. I didn't tell it but I mentioned how we had someone in our class who didn't speak English. Helped them suggest getting to know him. He was a little shy- didn't tell us his favorite food but his favorite color is orange. I think it was a step in the right direction. :-) (I tried saying a few things in Spanish but had to look up a few things).

George likes trying to find things that are his size "seats" like baskets, under the stroller and such. He's so funny. :-)

Cleaning (from September 2nd)

I don't remember all that happened last week. Our ward had a game night and George walked all over the place. We went to an opening social for our Married Student Institute Class. I've been cleaning. George's room is almost functional and then I'm going to make a reading corner for him and decorate it and buy a thing to store toys in so we can play in there come winter when we'll want to be upstairs.

We still have not settled in yet, but I think I know where I want to hang everything and almost everything is stacked neatly in closets so I can go through things slowly but still function and enjoy our place. George doesn't seem to notice much.

George is getting really good at going down the stairs. Occasionally he'll go backwards but most of the time he likes sitting down, scooting forward and standing up on the next step down.

The other day we went to lunch at in Indian place. There's a street here that is pretty much just restaurant after restaurant. There's Cajun, Thai, Italian, (there used to be an Ethiopian place), Turkish, and several others. Yesterday we went to an Indian place and they had a buffet. George went right for this potato dish and the guy comes in and was like, "WOAH! He likes spicy?!" He then told us what most kids like- George didn't like those ones, but he did like the potatoes in the spicy one and he liked their mango juice. I have decided I really like Indian food. Jon bought some lamb at Sam's Club the other day and so I decided to try an Indian dish. I started looking up recipes but didn't think I'd have time with George. I was right. But most seem to use onions, garlic, tumeric and garam masala (which I happen to have). One used tomatoes and stuff, so I just added stuff, threw in potatoes and some chopped lamb and we'll see how it goes. (It was pretty good and George really liked it).